Most men want sex. Most women want sex too. Speaking directly to women, and other times directly to men, the book takes readers on a journey that leads not just to the bedroom and to improved bedroom games, but ultimately to a better relationship.

Here's some of the advice readers will encounter:

• If you want to be loved, you have to be lovable; if you want to be adored, you have to be adorable; and if you want attention, you have to be fun.
• If partners in an intimate relationship keep score of who did what for whom, the relationship is doomed.
• A man who learns to gratify woman with his hands and his mouth will never feel impotent again.

The real game of seduction is about intimacy and fun, not winning. And with the knowledge in this book, when lovers make it to bed there are no losers.

To Bed or Not to Bed shows men and women how to seduce a partner, and use the differences between the sexes to create greater excitement.